Every time I hear a curse word I want to tell them…

Use your words, now. What are you really trying to communicate?

As though they’re small children so pent up in frustration that they’re still learning how to find the appropriate words to communicate they’re true inner struggle.

I don’t understand why there’s such an obsession to speak with words that are thoughtless, careless and shallow. They say,

{F***!} and I’m thinking,

Okay, well what are you really thinking about in this very moment  of time? All that word tells me is that you’re too lazy to find the words to truly express your inner thoughts.

When a curse word is used, it’s shallow speech. It’s the human spirit of giving up on communication with depth, when life is hard. And when the curse words are hurled at another human being, it’s mere pride. People love to lord themselves over others to make themselves feel empowered in the moment.

For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. I John 2:16

There’s nothing new under the sun…

So that which has been is that which will be, And that which has been done is that which will be done. There is nothing new under the sun. Ecclesiastes 1:9

I’m praying that people will push themselves to go deeper in life and to read the Word given to us and to live by it. That there will be a movement to deny shallow curse words and to use words more meaningful that communicate one’s language with depth. I know I’m dreaming BIG, here, but that’s what I strive to do, daily—TO DREAM BIG!

As a Mama bear who has experienced the loss of a child and has spent the last 20+ years of life educating people to communicate ones deepest thoughts, which can lead to healing and inner peace, I’m just plain tired of the pointless communication delivered—via a curse word. I’m convinced that this rationalized form of speaking takes a heavy toll on the body. I know why so many people are sick, in despair and end up taking their own lives. They are without inner peace. They don’t do the hard work of digging deep to push through and understand why they are here in this world—especially after losing a cherished loved one.

I’ll say it a little bit more point blank, people just give up! They allow shallowness of mind and or numbness of emotion to invade every inner place of their heart, soul and mind so that they don’t have to do the hard work of carrying on and finding inner peace.

There’s a better way. God has a purpose for each and every one of us—for you and for me. We were created intricately and with the deepest expression of character and design. Why cheapen it with thoughtless expression of language?

For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother’s womb. Psalm 139:13

See what happens when you deny the next *curse* word that wants to come traipsing out of your mouth and instead, dig deeper for words that will help you to communicate what you’re really thinking and feeling.

Don’t let the word,


prevent you from a moment of discovering what your true inner struggle is—or any other curse word for that matter. You might be surprised that you will even learn something new about yourself. As you become better at resolving your inner struggles, you might be just the person that can make the world a brighter place to live.

A plan in the heart of a man is like deep water, but a man of understanding draws it out. Proverbs 20:

Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear. Ephesians 4:29